Tudor Time

While in England for Geoffrey's mother Kathleen's funeral on the 1st of December, we drove to Chelsea and visited the Victoria and Albert. First the costume exhibit. Then we discovered the Elizabethan rooms. We visited the great Bed of Ware and a room that had been completely reconstructed in the museum.
This sarcophagus is actually a photo from our stay in the Cotswolds in 2007. We had combined visiting Kathleen with a weeks stay. There had been floods that Spring and Summer. We went on long walks through the countryside and found this tomb in a small church.

The floor reconstructed in the V&A is, I presume,"Tudor oak" as in the opening monologue of "Lettice and Lovage."




Loved the ornate fireplace and the molded plaster ceiling. All creating a very gloomy room with a huge long dining table like the ones in Le Pain Quotidian but very dark!!


For Christmas we got a copy of "The Tudor Chronicles" by Susan Doran. A friend is reading a biography of Henry VII and a lively discussion developed at our Epiphany table about the "evilest man in England." I poured over the section on Henry' s life and that's really the first time I got the dates sorted!
I was a tour guide in London in the 70's for Abercrombie and Kent, luxury travel. That was a bread and butter job that I could keep! I undertook extraordinary feats of assistance for tourists who were always losing their luggage even when standing right next to it!! I would meet planeloads as they arrived at Heathrow. On the bus ride into London and their hotel I would explain the sights we were passing and alert them to their itinerary for the week. Often the flights were delayed, and I would wait for hours at the Arrivals gate at Heathrow, watching reunions of far flung families. I was in tears at the emotion I saw lavished on the arriving relatives. Such joy, such triumph over separation!

A day off for my husband. A chance to wash clothes, "pop into" the theatre, pay bills, maybe walk the dog and drink lots of water. Then back to the gloomy Dane straight through to techs.

Here we are last summer in Yosemite. Even with so many people there it's beautiful and holds onto it's natural beauty. The waterfalls were dried up but this stream wasn't and was soooo.. relaxing. A nice memory.

Montgomery is balmy and sunny today.
Big news: we may go out to a movie!!!
First I'll memorize another monologue from "Lettice and Lovage." Everyone knows I'm in it even though I wasn't allowed to say so. A student wished me good luck with it. Praise for her generousity of spirit!!!

Kathleen Winifred Baldwin Sherman
March 17, 1922-November 18, 2009

TRIBUTE
Kathleen Sherman was a committed Christian and chocolate lover. She was the oldest daughter in a family of six and was born and brought up in Shepherd’s Bush. During the many illnesses of her own mother, she became the primary caretaker for the entire family. A childhood accident left her with chronic back pain, but throughout her life she was know for her helping hand and sunny personality.In earlier life she was a civil servant and a singer, playing leading roles for the West London Operatic Society. It was here that her relationship with Jack Sherman, who was the Musical Director, grew and blossomed. They married and together had their son Geoffrey. His arrival was something of a triumph over difficult circumstances as Jack and Kathleen were bombed out of their home twice and Kathleen faced some health problems which meant that the pregnancy and birth were not straightforward.
Kathleen doted on Geoffrey and, even in later life, delighted in his company. As a child he suffered ill health and Kathleen made sure that she knew what the school curriculum was so that she could ensure that Geoffrey kept up with his lessons. Living in such a musical household Geoffrey was able to read music almost before he could read words and it was Kathleen who encouraged him to become a choirboy at the unusually young age of six. She also encouraged his violin lessons and has been supportive and proud of him throughout his life.
With her husband, Jack, she ran the family woollen business. She did all sorts of things and including planning trips North to visit woollen mills. She enjoyed these trips and, as on all car journeys, acted as a human navigation system. Not only did she provide directions, but also a running commentary of the road ahead.
For years Jack continued to run the West London Operatic Society and also gave singing lessons at home. Kathleen supported these endeavours by making sure that the house ran smoothly – dinner was always on the table promptly at six. In addition to Jack and Geoffrey, Kathleen’s wider family also benefited from her love and nurture and her cousin Audrey, who is with us today, looked on her as something of a godmother.
Kathleen’s caring nature came to the fore when she looked after, and nursed at different times, both her mother in law and sister in law in her own home. As an active member of the St. Dunstan's Mother's Union, she opened her house to all in need. On one occasion a young Australian child who needed a heart operation only available at Hammersmith Hospital was welcomed into the family home. Sadly, despite everyone’s best efforts, the girl eventually died, but it’s just one example of Kathleen’s kindness.
Kathleen was one of those people who had the ability to talk to anyone and often did – a character trait that embarrassed Geoffrey as a child.
In later years her twice weekly shopping trips in East Acton could take hours. This was partly because of her poor mobility and partly because she stopped to talk to all and sundry almost as if she was at a local village high street rather than West London.
Kathleen attended Geoffrey and Diana’s wedding in the States and she was a sweet grandma to Alice. Kathleen continued to run the family firm for some years after Jack’s death, until ill health forced her retirement and, on one of their trips to England the family were put to good use in the shop – Geoffrey going through the accounts and Diana and Alice in the stock room. On her last trip to their home Kathleen enjoyed spending time looking out of the window and watching the squirrels. She always loved animals.
Kathleen is remembered by her family for her salads and her desserts; and her green thumb resulted in a profusion of plant life throughout her home and garden. She was a gentle, pleasant person. For the last ten years of her life she suffered from progressive dementia, but she remained a sweet and socializing influence to the end. Children always warmed to her and in turn she loved them. Perhaps it’s fitting to finish this tribute with some words from her granddaughter Alice who simply said, ‘she was the cutest little lady, cuddly and cooing’. So today we pay tribute to Kathleen’s achievements, to her sweet nature and to a life well lived.

Christmas Past 2009

Things didn't exactly been go according to the Disney script.

Our celebrations were well intentioned, but a little amiss. First of all, I overdid the Christmas decorations. The dining room all silvery with huge snowflakes hanging from the chandelier and this silver table wreath. Plus silver napkins. Then the living room GOLD!!! I think I was trying to make up for last year when we got stranded by a snowstorm in the Utah mountains. Really only photos could show the folly. I wanted to cheer up Geoffrey!

Meanwhile, he nearly fell apart at a service of remembrance the Wednesday before Christmas when he went up to light the candle for Kathleen. Got all choked up. Maybe because he had a colonoscopy that morning. In addition, I had put my back out trying to help him to get his clothes back on! Then Alice had had a dentist appointment. We were a right collection of doddering old fools! But we managed to struggle through a very nice dinner at our favorite Indian restaurant.

The next day, Christmas Eve, I continued to tweak the intense decorations while Geoffrey and Alice shopped for groceries and then went to the final performance of "A Christmas Story". All the presents were wrapped. It was perfect. We had the pot roast and then Geoffrey fell face-forward into the couch never to rise up. I collapsed on the other end. Alice couldn't rally either of us for midnight mass. The next morning it was obvious I had bronchitis or something.

Still, we pressed on with preparation of our turkey dinner. We opened the presents and a champagne I had been saving for a happy day since my 60th birthday (18 months ago)! Alice had to cut two dishes from the menu so we could eat before the turkey turned stone cold. I leave you to imagine any grumbles of discontent. Then we went to the movies.

"Up In The Air" is thought provoking and very good, but a depressing sort of entertainment. Christmas Spirit was further frayed when Alice asked for one of our cars to drive to Atlanta for Boxing Day to see a chum.

So, I went to bed with aching ribs. Geoffrey and Alice walked the dog up to get coffee before she started her drive to Atlanta. We parents re-cooped while Alice reveled with cute people her age. When she got back we hung out and cooled out and enjoyed the rest (as in restful) of the twelve days of Christmas.... although she left on New Year's Eve in time to go to parties in LA.

“Streetcar” desire

I was on the plane flying to New York in mid December when I read it. “I don’t expect to see a better performance of this role in my lifetime.” John Lahr wrote that in his review of Tennessee Williams' “A Streetcar Named Desire” in The New Yorker magazine. He was talking about Cate Blanchett as Blanche DuBois in the Sydney Theatre Company production at the Brooklyn Academy. If John Lahr, the son of The Cowardly Lion, Bert, says something like this, you listen.

This I had to see.

I wouldn't be jealous. I was well over the terrible production I'd seen in London during the time I had lived there. Its shortfalls had given me the pluck to learn the part when I moved to New York and use it to audition for Nikos Psacharopoulis at Williamstown. That's how I got into the company! Oh right and there's the time I actually landed the part in summer stock in 1985 but unfortunately was pregnant and due to fill out considerably in the two months before the job started, then actually deliver the baby. I was in the perfect emotional state just not the correct physical state!

I was over all that competition stuff. Cate Blanchett had my attention.

But how could I get a ticket?

Checked the website. SOLD OUT.

Went to Broadway Box where you can usually get anything you need “discounted” to a couple of hundred dollars. No.

Finally called the actual Box Office. They had a returns line two hours before the show.

Deciding to shoot for the Wednesday matinee, I caught the subway to Brooklyn at 10 am.on a particularly frigid morning. A lady was sitting on the sunny pavement outside the theatre absorbed in a book when I arrived at about 10:30. It seemed impolite to disturb her. There were ten silent, bundled figures ahead of her. The line.

Three and a half hours to go.

I made cell phone calls for a little while.

Then a car pulled up and a lady took the spot behind me. When her companion arrived they asked if I wanted coffee. Beth Ann and Patrick and I talked for the next three hours.

We adored Cate Blanchett in Shekhar Kapur's film “Elizabeth.” It simply outstripped all modern plays and tv movies for defining the treachery of those times. Then “Notes on a Scandal” with Judi Dench.They had seen Cate Blanchett and Liv Ulman, the director, on the Charlie Rose show. That's why they were in line for tickets. Liv Ulman had apparently focused on Blanche rather than the character of Stanley for this production. Who in their right mind would focus on the character of Stanley? Unless, of course, you had one of those big name tv or film actresses playing Blanche and as the director you were knew you were sunk if at least one of the characters didn't come up with an amazing performance. So you had turned your lights onto the decent, until recently practically unknown guy playing Stanley.

My friends Beth Ann and Patrick were firefighters. They were married and had five children. They had traveled with all the five children to Australia but hadn't stayed long enough to really enjoy such a huge country. Just two weeks.

As firefighters they had gotten to know men and women in many stations throughout the city and five boroughs by filling in when people needed leave. The days spent cooking together and gabbing in the stations bonded them. They always knew someone on a crew.

Just then a fire engine pulled up. Yes, Patrick knew one of the guys. They were inspecting the building to see if a pool could be constructed on stage for an upcoming play.

Could they get us into “Streetcar?” Not fair and square.

The box office opened and the first fifteen of us were let into the building. A blessed relief from shivering. My friends made the cut and a few girls after them.

The audience began to arrive. A woman sold a ticket to the first man on line. Many mini dramas ensued. A large crowd of schoolboys from St Regis streamed in. You'd think one or two of their classmates might be sick. A celebrity New York newscaster strode in in very high heeled boots with a very large hairdo. We were moving up in the line.

I considered surrendering my place if two tickets were available when I got there so my new friends could see this masterpiece together.

A call from my husband Geoffrey informed me that our old friend, Pat Scully, was now the General Manager of BAM. What a pity I hadn't let him know I wanted to see the show.

Conspiracies began to hatch. We talked about sneaking in.

Just before the curtain went up, I was first in line. Then the curtain went up.

“Ladies and gentlemen, that's it. There will be no more tickets available. Leave the lobby immediately.”

I made a quick peace with the amount of time I had given to Kate Blanchett's Blanche DuBois. Three and a half hour wait, plus subway travel. Would I have gotten dozy during the performance?

As I headed out the door there was a young woman taking her place for the 7:30 performance returns line. Only five and a half hours to go.

A Rave for A Christmas Story

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